I have been reading all anonymous posts of harassment on social media, which say, 1. I m being troubled by my in- laws. 2. My husband drinks a lot, he beats me but I m quiet for my kids. 3. Mine was a love marriage where we eloped, so I don’t have my parents’ support, that’s why even if I m suffering a lot in this marriage I can’t go anywhere. 4. I don’t earn, I have no money, I am dependent on my husband totally. What to do please suggest. Are these following BEST SOLUTIONS really DIFFICULT 🤔?? 1. Why can’t you just walk out and stay at your friend’s place (even if you have kids, take them, they will be your strength to stand alone for yourself and your kids.) 2. When you keep tolerating and Tomorrow god forbid, if in-laws or your husband kills you, whose mistake it would ? Of course not theirs, YOU ARE THE CULPRIT HERE! 3. When you think, “ I don’t earn, I have no money, I am dependent on my husband totally” , What’s the main motive of marriage ? Straight cut sentence- “are you willingly staying dependent so that you don’t want to earn on your own?” Or even better – “ you don’t want to take PAIN!! 4. Are there only two places to live? – either your husband’s or your parents’? Why can’t you create your own place which will be solely yours. Get out of the gloomy life and rent an apartment, go to Women’s hostel, friends place for some days. Whatever stree dhan (gold jewellery) you have, it’s legally YOURS! Use that to settle your life. 5. Take legal help, laws in India do take care of women. Have Trust ! Why do we always think: What will people say? How can I ask for help from my friend, she will gossip with others. If I give away my gold for a mere amount of money what’s in my future? Dude, first of all the biggest step is getting out, TRUST ME, universe will help you in every possible manner to start afresh! Let friends gossip, it’s not going to affect you anyway, be rest assured that you are SAFE NOW! If you still cling onto those unrealistic relationships, you are just expecting too much from them, they are NOT WORTH. I have seen children being suffered the most that too psychologically, so it’s your responsibility to bring them to a new horizon to see the best in life. You keeping them with such toxic people is only going to ruin their life. Please please please just one step , rest all will be taken care of, TRUST ME! तू कितना सहेगा ए दोस्त, यहाँ तो सूरज भी ख़ुद जलता है, तू तो इन्सान है, जीने की ताक़त रख, जीने से क्यों डरता है? Remember one thing, be a Superwoman in our eyes first and then for your children, confidence andar se jagega , bahar ke log to usse dabane ki hi Koshish karenge! There is no person in this world without any talent, kuch nahi toh help other families in their households, prepare food, make tiffins for others, NO JOB IS LESS, working hard is the key! I have worked as a Waitress, kitchen assistant in sushi making Japanese company , in Radisson from 4 am to 2 pm for breakfast and lunch duties while completing my masters in the UK. If I had doubts in working like that, I couldn’t complete my degree and survive in uk. All the best ladies, MORE POWER TO YOU 💕🧿